Barbara Johnson says " Life is what happens after you make plans!" Isn't this true! We try so hard to get everything just right and we are so frustrated when things don't go according to plan. I am sure Barbara Johnson never planned for two of her children to die before she did. This entire chapter is devoted to "life happening!" I was shocked to read that she did a lot of grieving in private since her "ivory soap" christian friends had expected her to be done with this sadness. Do you know someone who is grieving? Do you know someone who has lost a loved one? going through a divorce? without work? If you get a moment just shoot them an encouraging email. I promise you will be the light they needed today!